In
Hannah Gadsby's Nanette, she covered a lot of ground. She only briefly
mentioned what I'm going to write about, but it is something that has always
bothered me.
"Separate the artist from the art."
In her comedy special, she was speaking about Picasso
and how just because he had sex with an underage girl doesn't
mean you can't appreciate his cubism! Gadsby new this was bullshit and so do I.
Here are the reasons I not only hate Chris Brown, but also his supporters.
When Chris Brown assaulted Rihanna, I was pretty
young. As I grew up, I continued to listen to his music. I didn't know any
better. When I stumbled upon the police report detailing everything that
happened during the assault, I opened my Spotify, searched "Chris
Brown," and unsaved all his music I had saved (Kaufman, 2009).
In 2016, his ex-girlfriend Karrueche filed for a
restraining order because he had pushed her down the stairs, punched her in the
stomach, and threatened to shoot her because if he couldn't "have
her" then nobody could (Jeltson, 2017). His supporters shared a picture of
Karrueche doing yoga with captions like "Damn, do you see that ass? No
wonder Breezy was ready to catch a case over her! I'd risk it all
too!"
He was accused of raping a woman in Paris in 2019
(Tsioulcas, 2019). His supporters fired back with "he is CHRIS BROWN.
EVERY girl wants him. He wouldn't HAVE to rape someone! Duh!" Surely they
can't be that stupid, but I have noticed a pattern with men in general: if the
accused is their friend or someone they support, it couldn't have possibly
happened. It's not their business. They're going to stay out of it. But that's
a whole different blog post idea you all are welcome to use.
Years later, Chris Brown came out with a documentary
detailing his life. His supporters, again, were quick to say "See, he's
just misunderstood. There's two sides to every story. He learned from his
mistakes."
Here is why that is bullshit: you shouldn't
need to beat, rape, and threaten women before you learn not to do those things.
They are not "mistakes." Filling in the wrong bubble on a scantron is
a mistake. Hitting a stop sign is a mistake. Physical and sexual assault is not
a mistake you make before learning not to do it again.
When R. Kelly was exposed as a disgusting predator, it
only took me 30 seconds to unsave all the music in my Spotify that included
him. I will gladly skip every song I used to consider a BOP if it is by men
that hurt and disrespect women. I will not separate the artist from the art,
because every time I stream those songs, they get money from my wallet. I am well aware that my one stream won't make much of a difference to their deep pockets, but it's the principle of the thing. I will
not support it in any way, shape, or form.
I hate Chris Brown. He should be in jail. The end.
Sources:
Jeltsen, Melissa. “Chris Brown's Ex
Claims He Threatened To Kill Her.” HuffPost, HuffPost, 22 Feb. 2017, www.huffpost.com/entry/chris-browns-ex-claims-he-threatened-to-kill-her_n_58adbafde4b0d0a6ef46d9ef.
Kaufman, Gil. “Chris Brown Police
Report Provides Details Of Altercation.” MTV
News, 6 Mar. 2009,
www.mtv.com/news/1606481/chris-brown-police-report-provides-details-of-altercation/.
Tsioulcas, Anastasia. “Chris Brown
Arrested On Charges Of Rape In Paris.” NPR, NPR, 22 Jan. 2019,
www.npr.org/2019/01/22/687346330/chris-brown-arrested-on-charges-of-rape-in-paris.
For the most, part I agree with your post in which you argue that the artist cannot be separated from the art because so much of the value placed upon art is due to the quality of the person who created it. Though, being the only male in the class, I feel that I have to defend my boys a little this time. I haven't felt the need to do this yet because most of the time when men are complained about in class, it is specifically in reference to the "bad" men--they are in fact bad. But when you said "I have noticed a pattern with men in general: if the accused is their friend or someone they support, it couldn't have possibly happened," I had two issues with this statement. First, it is not fair to blame all men in general. Second, from experience, women are just as susceptible to this fallacy as men. This is more of a pattern among humans. I don't want to come off as offended because I'm not. I have heard things like this my whole life, but this seems like an appropriate setting to defend myself.
ReplyDeleteNo I totally agree with you, I should've worded that better. In my own experience, I've had male friends more often than female friends tell me "I believe victims of assault" but then change their mind when they realize the rapist is someone they know. It can for sure be applied to females as well, & I apologize for the wording! I was writing based on what I've experienced and I should've kept it more objective.
DeleteI love love love this! I have some people close to me who defend him or use the "separate the art from the artist" excuse. What good is their art if they're a shitty person???? I HATE CHRIS BROWN!
ReplyDeleteThis post needed to be said. It's so true that men and women will try to excuse rape, assault, etc. when it's someone they support and say "it was just a mistake." NO, it was a CRIME. Those women will relive that "mistake" for the rest of their lives, and it's cruel that people will support the artist for their art and think "Oh, he makes great music, he must be a great person." In the end, we should be much more thoughtful of WHO we support as a person, not just the music they make.
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