Sunday, February 23, 2020

Week 7: My Contribution to the Guilty Pleasure Posts


I’m jumping on the guilty pleasures bandwagon because I’ve enjoyed reading all of the other guilty pleasure posts.  As there have been several posts of this nature, I assume you know the drill: I don’t feel guilty for enjoying these things, but “guilty pleasures” is the most convenient phrase to use for those activities and pastimes that society as a whole may mock or look down upon. I think it’s fascinating that I’ve gotten to know some of my classmates better after reading about their guilty pleasures. Guilty pleasures seem to capture the intricacies and passions of a person in a way that few other things can. When I started thinking about what my guilty pleasures could be, I realized that the things I thought of revealed a lot about me. Here are three of my guilty pleasures:
1.      Memorizing Things: I love finding a new poem that I like and committing it to memory. I have ten stanzas of a very long poem called “The Lady of Shalott” by Alfred Tennyson memorized. I’ve memorized the entirety of “Jabberwocky” by Lewis Carroll, and “Stopping By Woods On a Snowy Evening” by Robert Frost. For a lot of poems—“The Raven”, by Edgar Allen Poe, “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T.S. Eliot, “Tonight I Can Write” by Pablo Neruda, etc.—I only have a couple of stanzas memorized. I love reciting the poems I have memorized to myself and quoting them in daily conversation. In addition to poetry, I memorize movie dialogue and book passages. I can quote five minute movie scenes from memory, and recite whole paragraphs from books I’ve read.
2.      Rereading: I thought everyone read books over and over again just like me for a long time. Then, I had a conversation with someone who had never reread a book and I was mystified. Rereading books is my life! I’ve read the Harry Potter series so many times I’ve lost count. Literally. I have no idea how many times I’ve read those seven books, but the number has got to be in the double digits. There’s an element of comfort in rereading books. It’s like returning home, or visiting an old friend. I love discovering things in a book that I didn’t notice the first time I read it, and it’s so cool to see how all of the plot plays out when you already know how the book ends.
3.      Listening To Bootlegged Concerts: There are hundreds of audio recordings on YouTube of Queen concerts from the ‘70s and ‘80s, and I’ve listened to a lot of them. Eighty-six to be exact. I’m subscribed to three bootleg channels on YouTube, and I look forward to each new release. It’s so awesome to think that the recordings I listen to on YouTube today were recorded on a rudimentary tape recorder in the 20th century. Despite their age, the majority of the recordings are in amazing quality. I feel as though I’m in the room with my favorite band. Bootlegs are technically illegal, but, because I didn’t do the recording, and these bootlegs are decades old, I don’t feel bad for enjoying each one. One of my guilty pleasures had to be about Queen because I have a frightening addiction to this band. I was torn between talking about my Queen record collection, my multiple Queen t-shirts, or my playlist of Queen songs that is seventeen hours long, but I think the bootlegs functioned the best as a guilty pleasure.
            I think this post was just an exercise in self-indulgence for me. I had a lot of fun thinking of which of my pastimes I could classify as a guilty pleasure, and I love the idea of sharing guilty pleasures with others so we can all feel more comfortable with our own interests. We are trained by society to feel ashamed of the things we are enthusiastic about, but after reading Phoebe Robinson’s chapter on guilty pleasures in You Can’t Touch My Hair, I’ve been rethinking my relationship with my guilty pleasures. Robinson wrote, “I’m not going to feel weird or embarrassed about [my guilty pleasures] and neither should you about the things you love” (77), allowing me to present my not-so-guilty pleasures for society’s inspection with confidence.

7 comments:

  1. Vivienne, I really appreciated you expressing with us what you consider to be your guilty pleasures. I think that it is normal to have some form of self-indulgence in your life, because those self-indulgences is what can help keep us sane and happy! I also love rereading things! I like that every-time I reread something, I find something new to fall in love with and Harry Potter is a great example of this!

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  2. This. is. amazing. You're right--I feel like I know so much more about you now just from reading about your "guilty" pleasures. The memorization piece is so cool, especially Jabberwocky? What an absolute memorization QUEEN. The part about rereading books seriously almost made me cry. I also love this, and it is like returning home. I learn something new on each re-read, but the emotions are always the same. One of the books I've read over and over the most is Looking for Alaska by John Green, so you can imagine the amount of tears I've shed in my lifetime just from that book alone. Thanks so much for sharing these!

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  3. A) You're right - knowing each others' guilty pleasures just brings the class so much closer together! And,
    B) WOW, you're so cool! Your guilty pleasures just illustrate how smart and knowledgeable and interesting you are, and that's never something one should feel "guilty" about (not saying you are!). I really respect your interests, and I can even relate to some! I'm not good at memorizing literature (although I would LOVE to memorize "Jabberwocky"), but I love memorizing songs or fun raps (although I rarely have time to do it). I also love rereading, but I can only read a book 2 or 3 times before I basically completely memorize a book and sadly get little enjoyment from reading it again. However, I absolutely love how you can push through and enjoy rereading and memorizing and bootlegging things!! All-around awesome stuff!!

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  4. Awww...these comments are lovely. You all are wonderful.

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  5. I'm so happy you decided to jump on the guilty pleasure train! The fact that you love memorizing different kinds of writing is so unique and such a useful skill to have, even if it doesn't seem very useful. Also, I am a huge re-reader! Moreso when I was younger rather than now, but I remember reading "The Hunger Games" series five times overall and the first book specifically seven times. Yes, my family did think I was crazy. Maybe they were right, but that was such an important series for me at that time! Talking about all of these not-so-guilty pleasures is helpful for us all, and I am really glad that it feels self-indulgent for you. In this societal climate, it is hard to allow yourself any sort of time to be self-indulgent, especially in any setting that isn't private. You go, Vivienne! I can't wait to hear more of what you have to say!

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  6. I love that many of you decided to talk about your guilty pleasure. While we may not know each other very well, I feel I have grown closer to who you are as women by reading your blogs and fostering connections. That's something Hannah talked about in her stand-up, the importance of connection, and how it is so essential to making equality possible.

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  7. I also love to reread books! When I was younger, and had way more time to read, I would reread books over and over again because I loved them so much. I also think that it helps the reader pick up details in the plot that they didn't notice before. It is a very good way to get to know your book.

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