Wednesday, April 22, 2020

Beyond Me Too

Hey friends!

Earlier this semester, I attended a “Women in Academia” panel where Dr. Slocum-Schaffer mentioned something called amplification, a tactic women in the Obama administration started which involved highlighting and restating their female peers ideas until they were recognized by the larger group. I’ve been fascinated by the idea ever since because it’s so easily applicable to every aspect of our lives. I also knew I wanted to connect my project to the Me Too movement somehow, so I decided to combine these two ideas together. The final product ended up being a sort of visual blog. 

I asked for volunteers who were willing to share their story, whatever that meant to them, and I pulled powerful quotes from their audio recordings to turn into more artistic pieces that I posted on an Instagram account I made specifically for this project, @beyond.me.too. I decided to title it “beyond” because I believe Me Too and other similar movements have shown that the world listens less to the voice of a woman, no matter the topic. While stories of sexual violence are especially stigmatized and sensitive, I wanted anyone involved with this project to be able to share any story that has deeply affected them as a woman, whether it’s related to sexual violence or something completely different. I was originally planning to post only the artistic quotes on the Instagram page (my inspiration for this comes from @sophia.joan.short), but I quickly realized the words these women were speaking were too heavy and impactful for me to simply choose a few quotes and hope they were accurately representing the story as a whole. I decided to post the written dialogues alongside the artistic quote pieces so others could see the whole story as I did. 

This process was more difficult than I originally thought, so going forward, I’m going to link a blog account to the Instagram. This way, I’ll be able to post the artistic quotes as a sort of intro or cover art, and then link it to the actual story which will be on the blog. This will make things easier for me to upload, and the formatting will be more clean and precise. I’ll also have the option to upload pieces from the original audio clips with the participants permission, which I’m excited about because I quickly realized in the middle of this project that no series of words I string together will ever match the power of a human voice. I couldn’t replicate their sobs, their long pauses, the moments their voices cracked. As I continue this project (as I plan to), I hope to find a way to better incorporate a real sense of voice in the pieces. 

The best part of all the work that I did was the bonds I was able to form with the participants. Listening to both the pain and the bravery in their voices inspired me to share my own story, which I wasn’t originally planning to do. The way we were able to connect on such a deep level is something I would have never experienced without this project, and I’m grateful. 

I chose this project because I wanted women to feel heard, to actually be heard. Since the account is public, I’ve already gotten messages from several friends telling me that the account has impacted them in some way, and asking to share their own story. I’m so proud and so hopeful, because I know that when it comes time to take a new, bigger step, I have several women behind me who are ready to run.


Here's the account: Beyond Me Too


P.S. Yes, the Nick you'll read about in my story is our Nick. I have first-hand knowledge that he is the best person you’ll ever meet. 

15 comments:

  1. Aneyla, I just have to say, wow! I absolutely admire you for doing this project and continuing on with it! I think it is so important to have a platform to talk about the things that have happened to us! So, thank you for giving other people a safe environment to have their voice heard and to help spread awareness of what happens and how survivors cope with it! I think the blog is a great idea, because as you said you have so many different options for additional information if you want it! Great Job Aneyla! :)

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  2. This is a beautiful topic and project. I love that you’re using any story that has deeply impacted a woman. There are many struggles women have faced due to sex based discrimination and I think it is important to bring attention to all of them. This sounds so powerful and moving and I’m excited to read about. I also love that you got Nicks input. It’s great to see you bring attention to a feminist that isn’t female. I love the title beyond me too, it’s catchy yet still connects with the prior meaning of the me too movement.

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  3. I'm really glad what Dr. SASS said in that panel spoke to you because it did the same for me. Amplification truly is the key to increasing the female voice together. I'm so...proud that you took on this project, especially with how challenging it can be to hear such emotional stories.

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  4. This is a beautiful project that reflects your humanity and strength. Thank YOU for sharing your story. The Instagram account you made is visually stunning, and enlightening in terms of content. I'm so glad you are going to continue adding to the account and amplifying the voices that need to be heard.

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  5. I think this project was so perfect for you. You did so well with the imagery on the Instagram account. You're drawing attention to a very important issue that we will all inevitably face at some point in our lifetime. It's very clear that you've created a safe space for people and I am so proud of you buddy. <3

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  6. I love the idea that you came up with; it reminds me of creating a display in museum. The powerful emotions that these women speech teach their listeners about the pain and consequences of some of their actions or potential actions. Displaying them on a blog or Instagram page was very creative and makes it easier for the viewers to fully experience what you have made. Overall, I thought that you project was very beautiful and you should be proud that you established such a strong display of women!

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  7. This is awesome, Aneyla! I think using social media as part of the project was really clever. The Me Too movement is powered by social media, so using the same platform to make your own point about the trials women go through is genius. Nice job!

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  8. I looked at the Instagram and I just want to say that this is a truly powerful project. I love this so much. I think what you’re doing is so important. People are sharing there stories and that’s empowering. In the long run I think this will make women less afraid of speaking up, and telling our stories. Thank you so much for what you’re doing here!

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  9. I think it is so smart that you are breaking the accounts of the women you interviewed into two pieces, a stand-alone quote that could serve as cover art or an introduction, and then the rest of that individual's story. In this modern era of social media, I think it is also so awesome that you made this project into an instagram/blog page, and I can't wait to go check them out! I also think it would be so intensely powerful for you to include audio clips of the speakers, because like you said, the human voice recounting a traumatic story can be so much more ground-breaking than just seeing the words on a screen. I Can't Wait to go binge-read all of the stories, and I genuinely hope you will keep this going beyond this semester.

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  10. Wow, first of all, as soon as you mentioned you posted everything on Instagram, I pulled up the account. After the first post I opened, I was roped in: as an incredibly empathetic person, I couldn't stop listening and feeling these women's pains. Even though I've never personally experienced this overwhelming level of fear and betrayal and emptiness, I sat on the verge of tears through every post. Ultimately, thank you for your project. I'm sure those women appreciate you giving voice to their experiences, and I'm sure viewers, like me, appreciate them sharing their stories and how they're picking up the pieces. Thank you to you and everyone involved.

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  11. I love this project so much. I couldn't read too many stories because of trauma but the stories I did read were so impactful and powerful. I love the set up & design of the way these stories were told. I love that you took volunteers and told real stories the way that these strong survivors wanted to tell them. I don't want to repeat myself but the only word I can think of is Powerful. It's so powerful.

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  12. This is truly amazing. I read your post and then I went and read every Instagram post on the page. I’d be lying if I didn’t say I cried a little for each of these beautiful people. This is such an important project and I am looking forward to seeing where you take it. Thank you for sharing your stories and their stories with us. I’m honestly at a loss for words and that doesn’t usually happen. Just wow! This is incredible!

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  13. I loved reading about this very powerful and emotional project that you did that sounds like it greatly impacted you. Researching topics that involve sexual violence are not easy to research about, and I admire how dedicated you are to making sure that these individual's you interviewed have their stories heard and make them be conveyed in the best way possible. This inspired so much emotion for me knowing that this was such a successful project for you and that it allowed others to share their stories in a way that made them feel safe, cathartic inducing, and empowered. I hope your instagram account and blog will flourish as time goes on, and I look forward to see how this project will evolve in the future. I hope you have an amazing summer!

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  14. Aneyla, your topic and project is just so incredibly beautiful. I love that you gave women and survivors and opportunity to share their story, their voice, with others. I did not know about amplification until I read your post, but I absolutely love the idea. I am all for women supporting and lifting up other women. Thank you for all of the work you did on your project and for sharing it with us!

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  15. Aneyla, this was such a good post and I bet your project was just as amazing! Super interesting as well, because this topic isn't commonly talked about as pubically as people may think, because of sensitive content. I will be following that account on Instagram too! Thank you for sharing this with us and for sharing your story in your project. I wish I could've read your paper!
    You are doing great things, Aneyla! Keep kicking ass girl!

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