Comedy as A Safe Space for LGBTQ+ Women
For my project I wrote a paper examining whether or not comedy is used as a
safe place for women who are part of the LGBTQ+ community. I referred back to
authors we’ve discussed during class, and even included a few female comedians
we hadn’t discussed that I absolutely adore.
My argument included the question(s), if and why women in the LGBTQ+ community
used comedic expression, and if not, why? After conducting research and finding
many, many sources, I found that my thesis statement had been supported. Out of
the three female comedians I chose to include in my project, it was found that
all three used humility as a form of expression, but in different ways. For
example, Hannah Gadsby believed comedy wasn’t a safe place for her to express
herself because of her own experience being revolved vastly around
self-deprecation. Ellen DeGeneres and Lea DeLaria both projected themselves as
being fond of using humor as a safe space. DeGeneres did similarly use
self-deprecation but approached it differently with affiliative humor, her
reactions to situations of adversity were much different. For example she spoke
on the topic of her coming-out and when doing this she implemented a scenario
that everyone would enjoy/relate too, then finished the conversation expressing
the seriousness in what occurred to her, and others who may have experienced
similar things. DeLaria approached her comedy in a more relaxed,
confrontational tone and used and she is more comfortable with her comedy. She
uses a more self-enhancing approach to her comedy and refuses to let anyone
make her feel the adversity that's placed on her as a butch woman.
This project is important because we often don’t think about the thing’s
comedians endure to create messages for their audiences. These things include
incidents such as trauma, adversity, rejection, etc. The messages these LGBTQ+
women give are all similar, but different because it shows us everyone has a
story of their own and to cope with what occurs, they resort to various forms
of expression and for some, it may not always work.
My most favorite part about doing this project was researching and watching
videos and specials on these wonderful women, learning more about their stories
and how they express themselves. Humility is something we all partake in
everyday and it could be to cope with stress, make others laugh to make their
day better, etc. and I thought doing this research was pretty fun to do. Humor
may not always be a good place for everyone to reside to share their stories,
but there is always a powerful message that comes across the stories being
told. Using these three women in my project I thought really shined a
light on comedy and how people from different backgrounds, or even those who
identify under the same groups and communities share their stories differently in
comedy. All of these women have powerful voices they continue sharing, and I
believe that is absolutely beautiful in its own way. Having powerful voices
like theirs encourage others, including myself to share the stories we live through
different forms of expression whether it be comedy, writing, contemporary art,
etc.
I think that drawing attention to certain identities and how they utilize humor is a very powerful project. It’s fascinating to see how the women you have written about differ from those in other identities. I also like that you have discussed the ‘safe space’ of comedy and how it in interacts with the women. I think Hannah Gadsby and Ellen are a great contrasting source. I think that by bringing light to women and the identities they represent and how to make them feel more inclusive is a great project.
ReplyDeleteJamie, before this class, I never noticed how often the women around me used self- deprecating or humility based humor. Now, however, I have realized that not only do my friends and loved ones do it, but I also do it. But, like you said, I think humility based humor has become so normalized in the comedy we hear, that we often times don't realize that we're doing it. Awesome job on your project!
ReplyDeleteIt really is so important to recognize the raw power and emotion it takes to share our thoughts when they can be so traumatizing. For Gadsby to relive a traumatic story by telling it to an audience with humor is such a challenge, but at the same time it is her building strength and overcoming it.
ReplyDeleteThis is such an interesting project! I love how you brought in the voices of comedians that weren't discussed in our class seminar for more scope and to further support your thesis. I also like how you described how each of these women use comedy to tell their stories.
ReplyDeleteI love your idea Jamie! I had never thought about how the comedy performances of these LGBTQ+ women have such a huge affect on their lives. Though each of these women might differ on many aspects of their identities, they all seem to use comedy as a safer express of the dark portions of their lives. Some women might use their platform as a more serious expression, like Hannah Gadsby in Nanette, but they all use it somehow in their expression. Overall, I loved your project idea and I definitely think it helps to give a good perspective on these comedians.
ReplyDeleteI love this project and all the great ideas behind it. Before this class, I never realized how different comedy is for women, and the specific differences in approach they take when seeking laughter. Like Kelsey said, common things like self-deprecating humor or using certain aspects of your life as laugh-lines can be painful and/or challenging, but it is also a clear form of activism like we see in Nanette. Great ideas here!
ReplyDeleteInteresting topic! I know in class we discussed how harmful self-deprecation can be, but I really like how you talked about how actual comedians view self-deprecation as a strategy for an audience to listen to their own struggles. I like how you focused on three women in comedy who used self-deprecation in different ways AND who had different opinions about how useful their strategies actually are.
ReplyDeleteI think this is such an interesting topic that we don't really think about much, as comedy should be a safe space for everyone. Before this course, I never realized how much self-deprecating humor is used, especially by female comedians who are LGBT+. I also never realized how detrimental that can be to their sense of self-esteem and worth, so I am glad you chose this topic to delve deeper into with your major project! Also, I'm sure this was such a fun topic to research! Like you said, all of these women that you focus on are so much fun to watch, so I am not at all surprised that the research portion was the most enjoyable part of this project.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all I love DeLaria. I love that you talk about how they all have different opinions on their own comedy. This project is really interesting actually. I also love that you brought in women we didn’t talk about in class. I think this project is really powerful. You did a great job!
ReplyDeleteFirst off, I love the purpose of your project! Seeing these LGBTQ+ comedians find a safe space in comedy is heartwarming. I'm curious if these were the three comedians you centered on or if there were more that you included, but hearing their stories about comedy and self-expression also possibly self-deprecation is interesting to say the least. Overall, this is such an intriguing project, and I'm sure you had a ton of fun with it!
ReplyDeleteJamie! i love this project and I like the rest of the people above never really realized how much humor consisted of self-deprecating humor. Great job on this project relating class discussion topics with things you're passionate about! love it
ReplyDeleteI think all the women in our class took a collective "sigh" when we all realized how often we use self-deprecating humor and how damaging it actually can be. Bringing attention to this is so important! Using women and experiences we are all familiar with is so smart. This sounds like a super interesting paper.
ReplyDeleteI think this was a really cool idea! I think it's something that's very important to discuss because often I think these women can get lumped into other categories, and almost pushed to the side. It sounds like this was a lot of fun to do!
ReplyDeleteThis topic is really interesting and I appreciate the obvious time and effort you put into it in order to make it shine and be the best it can be. I always love watching and reading about women with strong voices since I feel it helps empower my own, and I loved your analysis on how these women will sacrifice so much in order to make their audiences laugh. I loved reading this and I hope you have a wonderful summer :)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, everyone!! Much love!
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your post! Just like you, my favorite part about my project was diving deeper into learning about each of the women I chose for my project. I really loved that you explained how each of the comedians you picked used humor in their works. I agree that comedians use their own traumas for our entertainment, and that has always seemed a little unsettling to me. Though like I pointed out in my project I also think it’s a way to help them heal from these painful events in their life. Great post!
ReplyDeleteJamie, this is such an intriguing concept, and I agree with many of the points you made in your post here. Although you didn't discuss her, I see Cameron Esposito in the picture you included. I watched her special, "Rape Jokes," and although she was joking about a serious and traumatic topic, she did it to bring aware to the stories of sexual assault survivors, including herself. I think it's interesting that you mentioned Ellen too, considering she's in some heat right now for her recent actions regarding her privilege. Regardless, you did an amazing job, Jamie!
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